NO.164

 

こんにちは

楽しい職場に変える

人材育成コンサルタントの

島谷昇志です

 

 

こういう人

いますか!?

 

いませんか!?

 

 

 

と聞かれたらびっくり

 

 

 

おそらく

ほとんどの職場に

いると思いますびっくりハッ

 

 

「あの人うるさい」ムカムカ

「キツイ」ムカムカ

「怒ってばかり」ムカムカ

「自分の都合のいいことばかり言う」ムカムカ

 

 

 

そんな人と

一緒に働くことも

ありますよね?

 

 

 

 

 

 

この人は

 

なぜ、強がるのでしょう

なぜ、相手を支配するような

言動をするのでしょう

 

 

 

 

それは

 

 

自分に自信がなく

自分の無力さを

自覚してるからです!

 

 

 

 

 

いじめの感覚とにていてショボーン

 

相手を支配して

自分が大きくなったように

感じることで

 

自分の弱さを見ないように

しているのです

 

自分を守りたいのです

 

 

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(ガブッて…噛むよ もやもや 噛んじゃうよ)

さて

 

こういう人に

あなたはどう対応しますか?

 

 

相手が上司の場合もあれば

相手が部下の場合もあるでしょう

 

 

 

いずれにせよ

 

 

やるべきことは

 

 

相手の不安や恐怖を

聞いてあげることです耳

 

隠された不安があるはずですキラキラ

 

 

 

ただし


チョット注意してください

 

 

あなたは相手を変えよう

思わないでください流れ星

 

 

 

自分が変わるのですウインクキラキラ

 

 

相手は解決策を

求めてはいません!!

 

 

 

共感、承認を

して欲しいのです

支配されたくはないのですウインクキラキラ

 

 

 

人を育てるって…

自分の器を大きくすることですクラッカークラッカークラッカー

 

それじゃまた合格

 

オフィスDream

島谷昇志

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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